...Sometimes our friend needs some advice...
But I'll tell you the right way…
Sometimes everyone faces then our friend needs some advice and we too. You must first be able to properly advise and how are we going to do it? In that article I share with you my advice and advice of some psychological that I am reading. It'll help us to give people right advice and not to listen to wrong advice. When our friends asking for advice they need us and want to listen our mind. Our first and foremost preoccupation, therefore, have got to support them without imposing our view. Because the advice is a gift and presents should be useful and correct, now I mean they doesn't have to look like some wedding presents that we're getting sometimes) When a person asking for advice he is vulnerable, your view is credible for him or he would have asked about it someone else. Therefore, we need to be friendly and understanding. You have to watch the way you speak when you will give person advice. That tone of voice it should not be pretentious or very serious, it must be really friendly, softly and approachable. The person must feel comfortable with you because he is vulnerable now. Okay, so that was Top Tip #1. TIP #2: Share your experience. You need to share your experience in a fun way. As a psychologist says, "You don't have to tell a person who asking for advice what he must to do, you just have to tell about similar situation in your life and what you ended up with." Your job is to share what you learned and your conclusions from that situation.
The next advisory that I can give you it has to be the first from all advice. It is exactly for those, who would be making to give advice. Consider your knowledge. Sometimes you can hear the question which you don't know how to answer or simply do not have enough knowledge to give person useful advice. Ask yourself: "Do I have the experience or knowledge needed to provide helpful advice in that situation?" If you do, great! If you don't, identify someone who is in a better position to help. The first rule, don't do anything to harm each other. Final word of advice, to offer your support as needed. If your friend or a family member can't to solve this situation on their own, then offer what help or support. Now, remember, the key is to put your loved one's needs and interests front and center. I hope these advices will be useful to you.
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